Self Evaluation

With all the happenings with reagrds to the dymanic of relationships between

men and women, husbands and wives, monogamy and infidelity many have found

the need to speak out and express their feelings on such matters.

Not just the matters at hand but the handlings of such personal matters in the

public eye.

The sudden death of Cincinatti Bengals Wide Reciever Chris Henry

has sparked a flame in the heart of Gabrielle Union

and her desire to address the situation as it relates to all those involved and

those that are not...but feel the need to judge.

"Today we lost another young, talented, black man. Like so many men and women in this world, Chris Henry had seen his share of trouble and adversity…and just like so many other men and women in this world, he realized it’s never too late to turn your life around. How many more lives need to be lost before we realize that as good Christians (as many of us like to call ourselves), spiritual beings or just plain old good folks we need to STOP THE JUDGMENT and try to lift each other up when we’ve fallen off the path.
Why are we all so quick to stop looking in the mirror at our own troubled lives…bad credit, lack of education or job skills, poor choices with the opposite sex, trying to live like Diddy when our homes are getting foreclosed, gossiping, jealous ranting or hating, or even not communicating with loved ones…its soooooo much easier to be obsessed with Tiger and Elin than dealing with our own troubled relationships…why get counseling for your daddy/mama/brother sister/relationship issues when we can hunt down a distraught woman and her 2 young children like animals??!! Why worry about how to pay for healthcare when we can laugh and joke about Lindsey Lohan. Journalists COULD do their jobs and sift through facts from what’s in the National Inquirer but why when it’s sooooooo much easier to print lies/half truths or straight up fairy tales to sell newspapers or magazines…forget about journalistic integrity when you’ve got to compete with the internet…who needs truth and compassion when we can’t wait for the next senseless tragedy or starlet scandal??!!
When will we come together and demand more from ourselves…more love and less hate…more fact finding than dirt digging…more lifting each other up and figuring out a way for life to improve than kicking people when they’re down…hold yourself to the same high standards we set for people on TV that we’ll never meet and don’t put food on our tables…be the person you always wanted to be…I’d like to think we were all born inherently good and on occasion make mistakes…stop looking in your neighbor’s backyard or Tigers’ or the girl who got the guy you liked or the dude who got the promotion you thought you deserved…we can only control ourselves…KEEP LOOKING IN THE MIRROR…that’s where the answers are that can truly change your life. In fact, lemme get off this damn blackberry and help my niece figure out how we’re gonna pay for college next year…Tiger can’t help me with that…that’s all me peace and love and many blessings!!!
-Gabrielle"

And that's one of the realest things I've ever heard......

As individuals we are always so quick to judge another persons situation, give advice that we would not give ourselves or negatively impact their decision. However, as humans as decent as we try to be we still make mistakes, emotions take over and we let them rule our lives......

wait this is getting personal..you get my point....

via: Nicole Bitchie