You win some......

And you loose some....
Some battles we go walk into already knowing the outcome. Then there are those that take us completely by surprise. To put it more simply if you know they may not be in your best interest....it is best that you by pass the pretty packaging and walk away.

There are some instances where we choose to stay and fight because we see an outcome that we want, one that we wish to obtain with all of our hard work. However, sometimes not even blood sweat and tears can get us to our final goal.

And that's ok. Just because the label clearly reads go for it does not mean that you'll get it. What it does mean is that there is a lesson to be learned and an experienced to be gained.

Although you may not win do not underestimate the value of the lesson learned.

Because you drink doesn't mean your thirst will be quenched.

World AIDS Day

Fact: 33 million people are living with HIV

Fact: AIDS is completely preventable

Fact: Protected sex can reduce your risk of transmitting HIV/AIDS

Be Safe, Be Aware, Get Tested

Terms and Conditions

I find my self wishing very often that life and several of it's situations came with terms and conditions. I, sometimes even wish they came with a shelf life label. I am sure it would help a lot of people myself included out.

Terms, in the beginning of every relationship, business or pleasure the terms are often set. This is they way I live my life. This is they way I like to be treated. This is the way I like for things to go. But what happens when the terms are stated, agreed upon and then ultimately not met.

Or what if the situation changes. A minor hurricane (not that hurricane's have ever been minor but for lack of a better word). What happens to the terms then. Ultimately are the terms reversible? Are they interchangeable and at some point do you need to re-evaluate them?

I had a lot of time to think this Thanksgiving. In doing so i reviewed the terms and conditions of my current situation and realized. Re-evaluation is definitely necessary.

Experience.....

Often our experiences JADE our realities. Molding them into a form that is neither here nor there.

Usually it is never anywhere ........

near the truth. Protect your experience.
Don't allow it to transform your truth. For you will forever live a life un-clear to you.

She loves his big EGO

I know it has been a while since I've posted sightings of my favorite couple

So I thought this was long over due.....

"When in Rome...Do like the Romans do"

Kanye West and Amber Rose

in Rome

From the fire.....to the limit

Real Love.......

Is not always about finding the perfect person.

But about building the perfect harmony.

with years of experiences and memories.

Were all the melodies

meet in the middle to create

a melodic symphony.

called

LOVE.

Michelle Williams x Derek Blank

ALTER EGO

I love the Alter Ego photo's.

Derek Blank is by far one of the best photographers.

His creative genius and artistic eye allow him

to really create an alter ego for the character

that is believable to all of us.